How to Escape the Friend Zone - wikiHow

How to Escape the Friend Zone - wikiHow

Seemed like something everyone in this day and age should know. Hopefully before High School and you end up giving yourself a complex - "I cant get a female to be romanticallu attracted to me; they either JUST want "fun" or just "a friend". Hopefully before College and thinking "I know, I'll just completely change who I am RIGHT NOW, out of nowhere, and if she sticks around AT ALL, I got her!". Ladies....LADIES...I mean this: I know "us guys" aren't always "nice, gentleman" anymore, but that SPIRIT is still in SOME of us, and sometimes the BIGGEST FACTOR to it dying...is YOU. Now Men....real Men (and being a real Man, is something a lot of US need to RE-Learn)...real Men "handle, not man-handle". they "lead, not control". A real man can take MORE then he gives, by his OWN choice. Sometimes the only way to truly lead, is to NOT be in the front, and NOT scream for everyone's attention. ...a HATE the "Friend Zone" - either direction. Trust one's self. Trust one's leanings. Walk Forward, and trust wherever you fall, it IS into the hands of a living GOD.

Last night, my wonderful and son and his mother started a trip to visit her family in El Paso...by car...for a week. This is THE FIRST TIME we'll all be separated this long AND this far. It makes me SAD...but I have time to work and TRY....SERIOUSLY TRY to have MORE when they return. Also, *SOME* Freetime to hang and stuff, which I haven't been able to do recently. "R.U.R." ended GREAT, Barbizon Modeling is STILL going well, and I have some auditions and interviews over the next 2 weeks, deciding parts of my life for the next 6 months or so. Prayers are asked for. LOVE is asked for. Honesty, Clarity of Message, and Openness are asked for. Thank you. Bless.